Thank you, Kathy. You always give me good things to think about. The ideal way, of course, is to really get to know someone, fall in love before you fall into bed, and treat sex as something sacred and holy, reserved for “the one and only,” and the final step of an amazing stairway to merging mind, soul, spirit, and body.

Advantages to doing it that way? Making love is way better than sex, and if you know and love someone that much, the love is the greatest you could ever imagine.